Come mark Tisha B'Av @ CNS this Monday Night and Tuesday
Tisha B'Av Schedule @ CNS 5770
Tisha B'av (the Ninth of Av), which begins Monday, July 19 and continues on Tuesday, July 20, is the day upon which we remember (and some mourn) the lost Jerusalem Temples. Tradition has suggested as well that the following tragedies occurred on Tisha Be'av: the negative report of the spies in the desert, the fall of Betar (the last holdout of the Jewish people in the Bar Kochba Revolt), the edict for the Spanish expulsion of Jews was issued, and World War I began. Historicity is perhaps less important than meaning here. Tisha B'Av is a day of loss. It is, simply said, a very sad day for the Jewish people.
On Tisha B'Av itself, it is traditional to refrain from eating, drinking, bathing, intimacy, wearing leather shoes, and learning Torah (except for topics pertaining to the day).
This year we will mark Tisha B'Av in the following ways:
1) Erev Tisha B'Av (Monday, July 19): We will meet in the Library of Netivot Shalom at 8:30pm for Ma'ariv and for the Book of Eicha, followed by a few of the Kinot, traditional sad-songs. People should bring flashlights, and prepare to sit on the floor (if possible), as it is a traditional sign of mourning, which Tisha B'Av is for the entire Jewish People. We will say the service, not sing it. The tone for this evening is unique in Jewish tradition - soft, sad, and somber. There is an additional tradition to not reach out to those around us, not even to greet others, sequestering ourselves somehow to alone-ness despite gathering together. It is both magic and painful.
2) Yom Tisha B'Av (Tuesday,July 20): We will be joining together with Congregation Beth Israel for Shacharit starting at 8:00 am at Beth Israel (1630 Bancroft Way, Berkeley),where services will follow the customs of Beth Israel. Following Shacharit and Kinnot there will be learning sessions with various community teachers. Please see the schedule below.
8:00 am Shacharit
9:00 am Kinnot
10:00 am Learning program speakers & topics as follows: 10:00-10:45 am: Rabbi Menachem Creditor -"Eli Tziyon: Metaphors for Pain"
10:50-11:40 am: Dr. Deena Aranoff -"Poetic Longing: Expressions of Loss in Megillat Eichah and in Medieval Hebrew Poetry"
11:45-12:35 pm : Marina Bitzan 12:40 - 1:30: Dalia Lockspeiser - "Kaddish: The Mourner's Conversation with G-d"
3) Tisha B'Av Minchah at Netivot Shalom (Tuesday,July 20):We will gather at 6:00 pm in the Library of Netivot Shalom for afternoon prayers and the Torah Service for the day. Unique to this Minchah Service is the practice of wearing Tallit and Teffilin (which are traditionally not worn on the morning of the holiday). Minchah marks start of the shift in the somber mood of the day towards Tu B'Av and the seven weeks on consolation.
At 9:00 pm We will conclude the fast day of Tisha B'Av with a brief song-filled Kiddush Levanah, blessing the new moon and the renewal of the month. Rabbi Shalom Bochner will lead us in this beautiful ritual that marks the transition from brokenness to consolation, from sorrow to joy.
Tradition teaches us that those who remember the destruction of Jerusalem and feel the brokenness of the world will be part of their rebuilding. May that be so, soon and in our days.
I had a beautiful day today. I stood with my sister, a passionate rabbi serving the U.S. Navy as a chaplain, at the World War II Memorial in Washington D.C. We remembered our grandfather of blessed memory, who fought for America and shared hard-earned wisdom with his children and grandchildren.
I looked to my right and saw the Washington Monument. Looked to my left at the Lincoln Memorial. I read quotes engraved on massive stones. And I felt, to my core, one sad feeling: too much war.
Too. Much. War.
The quotes and certain retellings of history would have me believe that we fought for pure purposes: we fought for religious freedom, we fought to end slavery, we fought for freedom for all humanity, we fought to end tyranny. But it's also true that we fought (and fight) for economic interests. It&…